WHAT A MOTHER TOLD HER SON A DAY BEFORE HIS WEDDING

 My DEAR SON YOU ARE NOW A MAN!!!

Tomorrow u will have a WIFE, she will be your new cook and a new person to share all your SECRETS with. Love ur Wife and take Good care of her.

Before you walk into her arms forever, let me give you some words of guidance.

There was a day I was arguing with your father. We were screaming. Tempers were high. I was angry and he was angry. Then, I called him an idiot!

He was shocked.

He looked at me asking how dare I call him that.

I immediately started calling him idiot, fool, stupid, crazy.

I called him all sort of names.

Guess what he did?

He didn’t raise his hands to hit me.

He just walked away, banging the door as he went out.

My Son, If your father had hit me and destroyed my eyes, how will you feel sitting here with me today?

How will you regard him as your father?

Would you have been proud of him or would you be blaming me for calling him names?

Never HIT your wife! No matter the provocation.

Just walk away and things will be normal.

Whenever she offends you, think of this story, I just told you, it could have been your mum!

Before I forgetget, after he left, I was filled with guilt. We slept on same bed that night and I went to him the next day. I pleaded with him, I did all I could to show I am sorry and he forgave me.

That day I cooked his favourite food, yes you know he loves Miyar Kuka soup right?

After that day, I never call him names, my respect for him was 10x stronger!!!

There is something very important you must always do, my son listen very carefully, DEFEND YOUR WIFE.

When she is under PRESSURE, STAND BY HER.

If your friends HATES her, it is your duty to make them see her as a QUEEN.

His relations don't like me.

But your father was always supportive until their perception changed!

There was a day your father was going to host a Meeting with his friends. That day, I was in the kitchen cooking for them and your father went to buy drinks. When the table was set and food was served. Everyone started eating. Then I remembered I did not ADD SALT in the FOOD. I was embarrassed.

Your father tasted the food and looked at me. He immediately turned to the guests. He told them that he instructed his wife last month not to add salt whenever she is cooking because of some problem with his body.

He said it in a FUNNY WAY and everyone laughed!

The guests understood and he asked me to bring salt and everyone added according to their taste.

He managed to eat the food without salt.

After the guest left, he went on his knees and asked ALLAH to forgive him for LYING.

Your wife is like a baby, sometimes she don’t know what to say or do. Stand up and speak for her!

Sometimes, read your wife and understand her.

Make it a habit to go PLACES with your wife. Beside your job, move around with her.

If anyone invite you to his house and told you not to come with your wife then be very careful.

Use wisdom.

I know you love ME as a mummy.

I know you tell me all your problems.

But now things will be different.

Let your wife be the first to know before me.

When you have problems with her don’t run to me immediately.

Wait for a day to pass and then talk to her about it.

Pray about it.

Report her to nobody but talk issues out within yourself.

I know you will have a happy home.

May Allah bless your home. Ameen!